"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fvck Buddies?

SharinganUser

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I am really interested in how to get a fu#$ buddy. I've talked to more than one woman about it and they all give me the same bull**** answers. :box:
They say it's not worth it and that they don't want to see me get hurt. Even if I do get hurt, I don't really care because I will survive. I've had one night stand. How is the FB thing any different?

From what I know about the FB thing is that you have to have sexual tension.

All I want to know is how do I get a FBuddy? :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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D_Master

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Its not something that you just ask for and it happens. I guess it could happen like that but I have found that its generally someone who alread wants you physically nd you f**k her and she is willing to continue to have sex with you even without a commitment. But to ask someone to be a f**k buddy probably won't get you much success.
 

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fcuk her REALLY good 1st time around, and she'll keep coming back.......worst case scenario will be that she wants to be your gf, in which case u can just make her believe shes your gf and continue gettin with other girls anyway (thus to YOU, shed be a **** buddy)
 

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I guess it doesn't really help that I don't find any of my female friends all that attractive.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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D_Master said:
Its not something that you just ask for and it happens. ..
Yeah, I thought it was strange that this type of thing is discussed and/or contracted.

"Excuse me, which do you prefer? Flame broiled or fried?"
"Would you like to save a ton on your car insurance?"
"Would you consider having a relationship with me that consisted of only freaky, circus weasel sex?"
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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