"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fuxked it up with the 'one'

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So I've been seeing this great girl for over a year but true to form have been texting and keeping in touch with others during the whole time. She caught me texting a few times, nothing too shady but still suspicious. After confronting me with it, and me lying and having alot of word exchange with her calling me out on my behaviour, she ended it a week ago. She has gone NC and blocked me but I really feel dumb since I wanted to be with her. Lost opportunity. I did email her today to talk and she responded very stand offish. On the premise that she is a catch, and I fucxked up, advice please
Tell her to call you when she wants some D.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I've been seeing this great girl for over a year but true to form have been texting and keeping in touch with others during the whole time. She caught me texting a few times, nothing too shady but still suspicious. After confronting me with it, and me lying and having alot of word exchange with her calling me out on my behaviour, she ended it a week ago. She has gone NC and blocked me but I really feel dumb since I wanted to be with her. Lost opportunity. I did email her today to talk and she responded very stand offish. On the premise that she is a catch, and I fucxked up, advice please
Jake's on you kuz.

I am that guy. No excuses. I will not apologize. Take it or leave it.

They are side piece. Treat as such. Never cowardice lying and excusing being monogamy.

Not in the mood means next.
 

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seems it, but every bloke who i know applied this frame, or similar, the woman still goes on about him 3 years later. she doesnt talk about the guy who took her for a 100 pound meal on the first date. she rants about the guy who couldnt care less

I see it all the time.
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There is no compromise. Don't ask stupid questions if you don't want them answers. Baeee cannot handle it.
 

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I've asked that question myself, validation, ego?
It’s sad that you need validation from exes but your problem goes beyond that. Why on earth would you text other girls while in bed with you GF? That’s just utter stupidity.
 

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It’s sad that you need validation from exes but your problem goes beyond that. Why on earth would you text other girls while in bed with you GF? That’s just utter stupidity.
In his defence, i would too but it would be to setup a three way. Not a pig roast. I have done both. More disgusted by the latter half.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cudos on spinning plates.

Send her a message... btch, call her a btch, it is because you lame ass in bed siley face.

If she does re make her your fb. Tell her to bring shampaigne to whatever she replies.

yes the relationship is overbut you can still fck her once in a while
 
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