"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Funny PUA thing came back to me today....

Warrior74

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I remember reading a long time ago some PUA technique where you tell a girl you are an artist and you pretend to furiously sketch her...then after much labor you show her the wonderfully crude stick figure with her name on it. I did that once to the hot chick at my leasing office just playing around. She showed it to me today. That was three years ago! Pretty funny. I was suprised she kept it.

She's my practice chic. Every guy I know who sees her, well...lets just say they have to pick their jaw off the floor. She's that blond barbie club girl most guys wish they had. I flirt hard with her, but I also talk to her as a friend (she's married), but she's young (22). I used to practice all my PUA game on her. We flirt all the time and she gives me all sorts of compliments on a regular basis. From the way I treat her she thinks I'm a player. Hell if I'm not intimidated by her...I must have girls lined up around the block. That's her logic.

I also would talk to her about men and women and relationships and what women like her really want. She wants a man who is strong, who will take charge and who will put her in her place. Someone who's fun and outgoing.

Anyway...it was just funny to me. Thought I'd share it. Find you a hot chic to practice on...even if she's unavailable...it helped me out when I was first getting started in the game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74 said:
I remember reading a long time ago some PUA technique where you tell a girl you are an artist and you pretend to furiously sketch her...then after much labor you show her the wonderfully crude stick figure with her name on it. I did that once to the hot chick at my leasing office just playing around. She showed it to me today. That was three years ago! Pretty funny. I was suprised she kept it.

She's my practice chic. Every guy I know who sees her, well...lets just say they have to pick their jaw off the floor. She's that blond barbie club girl most guys wish they had. I flirt hard with her, but I also talk to her as a friend (she's married), but she's young (22). I used to practice all my PUA game on her. We flirt all the time and she gives me all sorts of compliments on a regular basis. From the way I treat her she thinks I'm a player. Hell if I'm not intimidated by her...I must have girls lined up around the block. That's her logic.

I also would talk to her about men and women and relationships and what women like her really want. She wants a man who is strong, who will take charge and who will put her in her place. Someone who's fun and outgoing.

Anyway...it was just funny to me. Thought I'd share it. Find you a hot chic to practice on...even if she's unavailable...it helped me out when I was first getting started in the game.
I'm stealing that routine. Thanks.
 

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Hmm, interesting.

I find it funny that she still talks about what she wants even though she is married.

If you are not a total genetic reject in the looks department, Warrior, I'd say you have a shot at laying this gal.

I don't think she has found her Ken yet. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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