"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Funny PUA thing came back to me today....

Warrior74

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I remember reading a long time ago some PUA technique where you tell a girl you are an artist and you pretend to furiously sketch her...then after much labor you show her the wonderfully crude stick figure with her name on it. I did that once to the hot chick at my leasing office just playing around. She showed it to me today. That was three years ago! Pretty funny. I was suprised she kept it.

She's my practice chic. Every guy I know who sees her, well...lets just say they have to pick their jaw off the floor. She's that blond barbie club girl most guys wish they had. I flirt hard with her, but I also talk to her as a friend (she's married), but she's young (22). I used to practice all my PUA game on her. We flirt all the time and she gives me all sorts of compliments on a regular basis. From the way I treat her she thinks I'm a player. Hell if I'm not intimidated by her...I must have girls lined up around the block. That's her logic.

I also would talk to her about men and women and relationships and what women like her really want. She wants a man who is strong, who will take charge and who will put her in her place. Someone who's fun and outgoing.

Anyway...it was just funny to me. Thought I'd share it. Find you a hot chic to practice on...even if she's unavailable...it helped me out when I was first getting started in the game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warrior74 said:
I remember reading a long time ago some PUA technique where you tell a girl you are an artist and you pretend to furiously sketch her...then after much labor you show her the wonderfully crude stick figure with her name on it. I did that once to the hot chick at my leasing office just playing around. She showed it to me today. That was three years ago! Pretty funny. I was suprised she kept it.

She's my practice chic. Every guy I know who sees her, well...lets just say they have to pick their jaw off the floor. She's that blond barbie club girl most guys wish they had. I flirt hard with her, but I also talk to her as a friend (she's married), but she's young (22). I used to practice all my PUA game on her. We flirt all the time and she gives me all sorts of compliments on a regular basis. From the way I treat her she thinks I'm a player. Hell if I'm not intimidated by her...I must have girls lined up around the block. That's her logic.

I also would talk to her about men and women and relationships and what women like her really want. She wants a man who is strong, who will take charge and who will put her in her place. Someone who's fun and outgoing.

Anyway...it was just funny to me. Thought I'd share it. Find you a hot chic to practice on...even if she's unavailable...it helped me out when I was first getting started in the game.
I'm stealing that routine. Thanks.
 

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Hmm, interesting.

I find it funny that she still talks about what she wants even though she is married.

If you are not a total genetic reject in the looks department, Warrior, I'd say you have a shot at laying this gal.

I don't think she has found her Ken yet. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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