"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I remember reading a long time ago some PUA technique where you tell a girl you are an artist and you pretend to furiously sketch her...then after much labor you show her the wonderfully crude stick figure with her name on it. I did that once to the hot chick at my leasing office just playing around. She showed it to me today. That was three years ago! Pretty funny. I was suprised she kept it.

She's my practice chic. Every guy I know who sees her, well...lets just say they have to pick their jaw off the floor. She's that blond barbie club girl most guys wish they had. I flirt hard with her, but I also talk to her as a friend (she's married), but she's young (22). I used to practice all my PUA game on her. We flirt all the time and she gives me all sorts of compliments on a regular basis. From the way I treat her she thinks I'm a player. Hell if I'm not intimidated by her...I must have girls lined up around the block. That's her logic.

I also would talk to her about men and women and relationships and what women like her really want. She wants a man who is strong, who will take charge and who will put her in her place. Someone who's fun and outgoing.

Anyway...it was just funny to me. Thought I'd share it. Find you a hot chic to practice on...even if she's unavailable...it helped me out when I was first getting started in the game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74 said:
I remember reading a long time ago some PUA technique where you tell a girl you are an artist and you pretend to furiously sketch her...then after much labor you show her the wonderfully crude stick figure with her name on it. I did that once to the hot chick at my leasing office just playing around. She showed it to me today. That was three years ago! Pretty funny. I was suprised she kept it.

She's my practice chic. Every guy I know who sees her, well...lets just say they have to pick their jaw off the floor. She's that blond barbie club girl most guys wish they had. I flirt hard with her, but I also talk to her as a friend (she's married), but she's young (22). I used to practice all my PUA game on her. We flirt all the time and she gives me all sorts of compliments on a regular basis. From the way I treat her she thinks I'm a player. Hell if I'm not intimidated by her...I must have girls lined up around the block. That's her logic.

I also would talk to her about men and women and relationships and what women like her really want. She wants a man who is strong, who will take charge and who will put her in her place. Someone who's fun and outgoing.

Anyway...it was just funny to me. Thought I'd share it. Find you a hot chic to practice on...even if she's unavailable...it helped me out when I was first getting started in the game.
I'm stealing that routine. Thanks.
 

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Hmm, interesting.

I find it funny that she still talks about what she wants even though she is married.

If you are not a total genetic reject in the looks department, Warrior, I'd say you have a shot at laying this gal.

I don't think she has found her Ken yet. ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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