"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Fun Woman VS serious woman for LTR

evan12

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2012
Messages
1,371
Reaction score
313
So every time I get to know a fun girl I discover she is not that morally compatible with me , but in the same time she give me the best time and make me really feel I am loved and connected to her . From the other hand serious women look like they are more conservative, have less sexual mileage and more wife materials but they cant give me the spark .
It is the equivalent equations that women have about finding a husband material and in the same time has a bad boy features.
Any thought about that ? Are fun women more promiscuous that serious women ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
So every time I get to know a fun girl I discover she is not that morally compatible with me , but in the same time she give me the best time and make me really feel I am loved and connected to her . From the other hand serious women look like they are more conservative, have less sexual mileage and more wife materials but they cant give me the spark .
It is the equivalent equations that women have about finding a husband material and in the same time has a bad boy features.
Any thought about that ? Are fun women more promiscuous that serious women ?
Do you think you can coach a serious one and teach her how to fvck your right and what gets your fires going?
 

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
4,440
Reaction score
1,559
Age
82
Location
Australia
Dear Evan,
"They're all promiscuous lol."...They certainly are not!
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
Dear Evan,
"They're all promiscuous lol."...They certainly are not!
True. Some are asexual, others are bi-sexual and others are NO sexual. There are plenty of women who have zero sexual desire no matter who the male is. And there are plenty that would just need it once a week or a few times a month from that "Apex Alpha". There are others who do PREFER a provider type as well, a more beta guy.
 

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
4,440
Reaction score
1,559
Age
82
Location
Australia
Dear Evan,
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Precisely!........But tell me Fellow Don Juan,is that really you in that profile photo or Che Guavera?...That's before the CIA precipitately pushed him off this mortal coil.....If so you are one handsome Dog LOL.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Glumix

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2015
Messages
326
Reaction score
270
Age
46
Do you think you can coach a serious one and teach her how to fvck your right and what gets your fires going?
I don't think you can teach a woman. You buy her. If she does not fit, buy another one.
They don't understand anything about individuation and self-improvement.
They just fullfil their current needs.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
I don't think you can teach a woman. You buy her. If she does not fit, buy another one.
They don't understand anything about individuation and self-improvement.
They just fullfil their current needs.
I've coached many women and expanded their sexuality. They had a desire to please me, and where not that hard headed so they tried and they took many of my suggestions. So I don't agree.
 

evan12

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2012
Messages
1,371
Reaction score
313
Some are asexual, others are bi-sexual and others are NO sexual.
I know that , but my question is still standing , are fun women less LTR materials than serious women ?
 

sodbuster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
2,560
Reaction score
373
Age
67
Location
South Dakota
Depends on what you mean by fun. Spend every dime they make partying? Ready to do you at the drop of a hat? LIkely she's done it before.... so define fun, define serious.

I've got some relatives who aren't giving out free samples, make 50k a year and are HOT. BUT you are buying the car, it's not a rental. They are smart, save money, invest, and are fun to hang with. Be a good wife for someone. But they may fit your definition of serious
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
Depends on what you mean by fun. Spend every dime they make partying? Ready to do you at the drop of a hat? LIkely she's done it before.... so define fun, define serious.

I've got some relatives who aren't giving out free samples, make 50k a year and are HOT. BUT you are buying the car, it's not a rental. They are smart, save money, invest, and are fun to hang with. Be a good wife for someone. But they may fit your definition of serious
Sounds good. No one said a "good wife" can't be an excellent lay in the sack, personally I think that's part of being a good wife is she will continually learn new ways to please her man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top