"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fun Woman VS serious woman for LTR

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So every time I get to know a fun girl I discover she is not that morally compatible with me , but in the same time she give me the best time and make me really feel I am loved and connected to her . From the other hand serious women look like they are more conservative, have less sexual mileage and more wife materials but they cant give me the spark .
It is the equivalent equations that women have about finding a husband material and in the same time has a bad boy features.
Any thought about that ? Are fun women more promiscuous that serious women ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So every time I get to know a fun girl I discover she is not that morally compatible with me , but in the same time she give me the best time and make me really feel I am loved and connected to her . From the other hand serious women look like they are more conservative, have less sexual mileage and more wife materials but they cant give me the spark .
It is the equivalent equations that women have about finding a husband material and in the same time has a bad boy features.
Any thought about that ? Are fun women more promiscuous that serious women ?
Do you think you can coach a serious one and teach her how to fvck your right and what gets your fires going?
 

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Dear Evan,
"They're all promiscuous lol."...They certainly are not!
 

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Dear Evan,
"They're all promiscuous lol."...They certainly are not!
True. Some are asexual, others are bi-sexual and others are NO sexual. There are plenty of women who have zero sexual desire no matter who the male is. And there are plenty that would just need it once a week or a few times a month from that "Apex Alpha". There are others who do PREFER a provider type as well, a more beta guy.
 

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Dear Evan,
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Precisely!........But tell me Fellow Don Juan,is that really you in that profile photo or Che Guavera?...That's before the CIA precipitately pushed him off this mortal coil.....If so you are one handsome Dog LOL.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think you can coach a serious one and teach her how to fvck your right and what gets your fires going?
I don't think you can teach a woman. You buy her. If she does not fit, buy another one.
They don't understand anything about individuation and self-improvement.
They just fullfil their current needs.
 

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I don't think you can teach a woman. You buy her. If she does not fit, buy another one.
They don't understand anything about individuation and self-improvement.
They just fullfil their current needs.
I've coached many women and expanded their sexuality. They had a desire to please me, and where not that hard headed so they tried and they took many of my suggestions. So I don't agree.
 

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Some are asexual, others are bi-sexual and others are NO sexual.
I know that , but my question is still standing , are fun women less LTR materials than serious women ?
 

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Depends on what you mean by fun. Spend every dime they make partying? Ready to do you at the drop of a hat? LIkely she's done it before.... so define fun, define serious.

I've got some relatives who aren't giving out free samples, make 50k a year and are HOT. BUT you are buying the car, it's not a rental. They are smart, save money, invest, and are fun to hang with. Be a good wife for someone. But they may fit your definition of serious
 

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Depends on what you mean by fun. Spend every dime they make partying? Ready to do you at the drop of a hat? LIkely she's done it before.... so define fun, define serious.

I've got some relatives who aren't giving out free samples, make 50k a year and are HOT. BUT you are buying the car, it's not a rental. They are smart, save money, invest, and are fun to hang with. Be a good wife for someone. But they may fit your definition of serious
Sounds good. No one said a "good wife" can't be an excellent lay in the sack, personally I think that's part of being a good wife is she will continually learn new ways to please her man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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