"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fun Woman VS serious woman for LTR

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So every time I get to know a fun girl I discover she is not that morally compatible with me , but in the same time she give me the best time and make me really feel I am loved and connected to her . From the other hand serious women look like they are more conservative, have less sexual mileage and more wife materials but they cant give me the spark .
It is the equivalent equations that women have about finding a husband material and in the same time has a bad boy features.
Any thought about that ? Are fun women more promiscuous that serious women ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So every time I get to know a fun girl I discover she is not that morally compatible with me , but in the same time she give me the best time and make me really feel I am loved and connected to her . From the other hand serious women look like they are more conservative, have less sexual mileage and more wife materials but they cant give me the spark .
It is the equivalent equations that women have about finding a husband material and in the same time has a bad boy features.
Any thought about that ? Are fun women more promiscuous that serious women ?
Do you think you can coach a serious one and teach her how to fvck your right and what gets your fires going?
 

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Dear Evan,
"They're all promiscuous lol."...They certainly are not!
 

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Dear Evan,
"They're all promiscuous lol."...They certainly are not!
True. Some are asexual, others are bi-sexual and others are NO sexual. There are plenty of women who have zero sexual desire no matter who the male is. And there are plenty that would just need it once a week or a few times a month from that "Apex Alpha". There are others who do PREFER a provider type as well, a more beta guy.
 

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Dear Evan,
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Precisely!........But tell me Fellow Don Juan,is that really you in that profile photo or Che Guavera?...That's before the CIA precipitately pushed him off this mortal coil.....If so you are one handsome Dog LOL.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think you can coach a serious one and teach her how to fvck your right and what gets your fires going?
I don't think you can teach a woman. You buy her. If she does not fit, buy another one.
They don't understand anything about individuation and self-improvement.
They just fullfil their current needs.
 

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I don't think you can teach a woman. You buy her. If she does not fit, buy another one.
They don't understand anything about individuation and self-improvement.
They just fullfil their current needs.
I've coached many women and expanded their sexuality. They had a desire to please me, and where not that hard headed so they tried and they took many of my suggestions. So I don't agree.
 

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Some are asexual, others are bi-sexual and others are NO sexual.
I know that , but my question is still standing , are fun women less LTR materials than serious women ?
 

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Depends on what you mean by fun. Spend every dime they make partying? Ready to do you at the drop of a hat? LIkely she's done it before.... so define fun, define serious.

I've got some relatives who aren't giving out free samples, make 50k a year and are HOT. BUT you are buying the car, it's not a rental. They are smart, save money, invest, and are fun to hang with. Be a good wife for someone. But they may fit your definition of serious
 

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Depends on what you mean by fun. Spend every dime they make partying? Ready to do you at the drop of a hat? LIkely she's done it before.... so define fun, define serious.

I've got some relatives who aren't giving out free samples, make 50k a year and are HOT. BUT you are buying the car, it's not a rental. They are smart, save money, invest, and are fun to hang with. Be a good wife for someone. But they may fit your definition of serious
Sounds good. No one said a "good wife" can't be an excellent lay in the sack, personally I think that's part of being a good wife is she will continually learn new ways to please her man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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