"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fun with Facebook - Weeding Out The Ex's
- Thread starter Desdinova
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
logicallefty
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1) click the down arrow on the upper right hand corner
2) click activity log
3) on the left side of the screen click more
4) click on search
5) voila enjoy everything you typed in that search bar, dated and time stamped
a surprising amount of girls i know actually dont know about this. helped a lot of my friends weed out girls that were using them.
Desdinova
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Yeah, I'm aware of this. It's extremely useful when the girl gives you her password because she's "too lazy to type it in".ArcBound said:
A woman's FB searches are probably the most accurate way of measuring where her IL is sitting. I have the password for one of my ex's from almost 3 years ago, and she routinely looks me up about once a month.
I agree. Isn't the world strange? We tie ourselves to our facebook so much, that a peek into our facebook accounts is a peek into our thoughts.Desdinova said:
According to my friends, a lot of their gf's gave their password on the basis of trust. The thing was the girls would just delete messages and internet history, yet they never knew about the Facebook search recording which is what tipped them off. Facebook can be such a bro sometimes.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maximummax
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great jobDesdinova said:Here's something I did recently... I posted a profile picture of me holding a sign saying "Hello to my stalker" and a few days later checked to see how many of my ex-gfs blocked me afterwards. Quite a few did
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speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Not I, bro.ArcBound said:
I routinely delete search history, from facebook to youtube to my internet browsing history. I suggest everyone else do the same. I even go back and delete my oldest pictures every now and again.
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I almost never use the place. Facebook is just a massive invitation for Big Bro and other enemies to mess you up.