"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fun with Facebook - Weeding Out The Ex's

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Here's something I did recently... I posted a profile picture of me holding a sign saying "Hello to my stalker" and a few days later checked to see how many of my ex-gfs blocked me afterwards. Quite a few did :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HAHA clever!
 

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facebook actually keeps track of what you enter in a search bar. one of my friends dumped his gf after finding she repeated looked up her ex.

1) click the down arrow on the upper right hand corner

2) click activity log

3) on the left side of the screen click more

4) click on search

5) voila enjoy everything you typed in that search bar, dated and time stamped

a surprising amount of girls i know actually dont know about this. helped a lot of my friends weed out girls that were using them.
 

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ArcBound said:
facebook actually keeps track of what you enter in a search bar. one of my friends dumped his gf after finding she repeated looked up her ex.

1) click the down arrow on the upper right hand corner

2) click activity log

3) on the left side of the screen click more

4) click on search

5) voila enjoy everything you typed in that search bar, dated and time stamped

a surprising amount of girls i know actually dont know about this. helped a lot of my friends weed out girls that were using them.
Yeah, I'm aware of this. It's extremely useful when the girl gives you her password because she's "too lazy to type it in".

A woman's FB searches are probably the most accurate way of measuring where her IL is sitting. I have the password for one of my ex's from almost 3 years ago, and she routinely looks me up about once a month.
 

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Desdinova said:
Yeah, I'm aware of this. It's extremely useful when the girl gives you her password because she's "too lazy to type it in".

A woman's FB searches are probably the most accurate way of measuring where her IL is sitting. I have the password for one of my ex's from almost 3 years ago, and she routinely looks me up about once a month.
I agree. Isn't the world strange? We tie ourselves to our facebook so much, that a peek into our facebook accounts is a peek into our thoughts.

According to my friends, a lot of their gf's gave their password on the basis of trust. The thing was the girls would just delete messages and internet history, yet they never knew about the Facebook search recording which is what tipped them off. Facebook can be such a bro sometimes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova said:
Here's something I did recently... I posted a profile picture of me holding a sign saying "Hello to my stalker" and a few days later checked to see how many of my ex-gfs blocked me afterwards. Quite a few did :D
great job

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ArcBound said:
I agree. Isn't the world strange? We tie ourselves to our facebook so much, that a peek into our facebook accounts is a peek into our thoughts.
Not I, bro.

I routinely delete search history, from facebook to youtube to my internet browsing history. I suggest everyone else do the same. I even go back and delete my oldest pictures every now and again.
 
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I do a powerwash of the only pc that I get on the net with, once per month, and also delete my google plus acct and get a new one. there is no reason at all to expose yourself like that. I never knew that you COULD do a search for anyone specific, on FB. :) I almost never use the place. Facebook is just a massive invitation for Big Bro and other enemies to mess you up.
 
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