Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, I'm aware of this. It's extremely useful when the girl gives you her password because she's "too lazy to type it in".ArcBound said:facebook actually keeps track of what you enter in a search bar. one of my friends dumped his gf after finding she repeated looked up her ex.
1) click the down arrow on the upper right hand corner
2) click activity log
3) on the left side of the screen click more
4) click on search
5) voila enjoy everything you typed in that search bar, dated and time stamped
a surprising amount of girls i know actually dont know about this. helped a lot of my friends weed out girls that were using them.
I agree. Isn't the world strange? We tie ourselves to our facebook so much, that a peek into our facebook accounts is a peek into our thoughts.Desdinova said:Yeah, I'm aware of this. It's extremely useful when the girl gives you her password because she's "too lazy to type it in".
A woman's FB searches are probably the most accurate way of measuring where her IL is sitting. I have the password for one of my ex's from almost 3 years ago, and she routinely looks me up about once a month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
great jobDesdinova said:Here's something I did recently... I posted a profile picture of me holding a sign saying "Hello to my stalker" and a few days later checked to see how many of my ex-gfs blocked me afterwards. Quite a few did![]()
Not I, bro.ArcBound said:I agree. Isn't the world strange? We tie ourselves to our facebook so much, that a peek into our facebook accounts is a peek into our thoughts.