Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah, I'm aware of this. It's extremely useful when the girl gives you her password because she's "too lazy to type it in".ArcBound said:facebook actually keeps track of what you enter in a search bar. one of my friends dumped his gf after finding she repeated looked up her ex.
1) click the down arrow on the upper right hand corner
2) click activity log
3) on the left side of the screen click more
4) click on search
5) voila enjoy everything you typed in that search bar, dated and time stamped
a surprising amount of girls i know actually dont know about this. helped a lot of my friends weed out girls that were using them.
I agree. Isn't the world strange? We tie ourselves to our facebook so much, that a peek into our facebook accounts is a peek into our thoughts.Desdinova said:Yeah, I'm aware of this. It's extremely useful when the girl gives you her password because she's "too lazy to type it in".
A woman's FB searches are probably the most accurate way of measuring where her IL is sitting. I have the password for one of my ex's from almost 3 years ago, and she routinely looks me up about once a month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
great jobDesdinova said:Here's something I did recently... I posted a profile picture of me holding a sign saying "Hello to my stalker" and a few days later checked to see how many of my ex-gfs blocked me afterwards. Quite a few did![]()
Not I, bro.ArcBound said:I agree. Isn't the world strange? We tie ourselves to our facebook so much, that a peek into our facebook accounts is a peek into our thoughts.