"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shes 5-6, divorced, and has kids. Not included in the pic is her teeth are also not very good as well!
Its the way the screen cap took it i guess since i was trying to get her entire profile in it.

Face was about hb6 but teeth were not nice. Has multiple kids, post wall and bad teeth and is making demands.
Take a second screen cap next time. Otherwise, this is some 5'6" woman asking for 5'11"+.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I only do if the pics hook.
Same. I do read them if I see a long profile and the girl looks ugly or damaged just to see their demands.

The few hot girls I see on OLD usually are older, maybe post wall. Yes, older but it seems a lot of pre wall women are fatties they use OLD because they're not approached a lot. A hot 37 year old is better than a fat 25 year old.

Post wall women who look crazy looking have like 3 pages of demands. If she's hot looking too that tells me she's way too demanding and she drives guys away and must resort to using OLD.
 

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This one sent me a message last week and said to post an "unfiltered" pic lol. She also lists herself as a "model" on her profile.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This one sent me a message last week and said to post an "unfiltered" pic lol. She also lists herself as a "model" on her profile.

$10 says she's Italian. Ask her.
 

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I guess anyone can be a model. I mean you have plus size models. Also none of her pics showed her smile. Thats a red flag for bad teeth.
Or a Catholic. Latinas are also fond of doing the "frozen face" thing. It's because she doesn't want to show desire, she'll go to hell or be socially shamed or something. If she was a straight white girl and not exotic looking, then yes it would likely be the teeth. But why can't she at least curl the corners of her mouth?
 

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Or a Catholic. Latinas are also fond of doing the "frozen face" thing. It's because she doesn't want to show desire, she'll go to hell or be socially shamed or something. If she was a straight white girl and not exotic looking, then yes it would likely be the teeth. But why can't she at least curl the corners of her mouth?
I think this one might be one of those green card scammers. Listed she speaks russian, spanish, and lived all over Europe and russia. Was texting with this russian for awhile in my area.
 

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I think this one might be one of those green card scammers. Listed she speaks russian, spanish, and lived all over Europe and russia. Was texting with this russian for awhile in my area.
If they don't smile, don't engage with them. Imo frozen face women are worse than the crazy-eyed and resting-b1tch face women, because they're used to getting away with fooling guys about their lack of compliance issues. The crazy-eyed and resting-b-faced women don't get the same engagement level because it's more obvious what you're dealing with as a guy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This one sent me a message last week and said to post an "unfiltered" pic lol. She also lists herself as a "model" on her profile.

She is not impressive looking at all. @I_have_BDE is 40 years old and lives in an area with a high median age.
 

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So to dispel the idea that women don’t pay for Tinder - this chick is paying for Select, which I believe is $500/month
 

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You can just tell from her face she's a delusionsal psycho, probably narcissist. All of her "green flags" are actually horse**** that someone else can translate if they feel so inclined.


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You can just tell from her face she's a delusionsal psycho, probably narcissist. All of her "green flags" are actually horse**** that someone else can translate if they feel so inclined.


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Bet its the one on the right? I'd also posit that it's her sister to the left. She has methuselah eyebrows which means a ton of botox, badly applied, and possibly has had work done on her face. The sister is what she'd look like if she wasn't psycho.

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So to dispel the idea that women don’t pay for Tinder - this chick is paying for Select, which I believe is $500/month
This woman doesn't have to though if she put some effort into making herself appealing. Looks like she wants to pay for Select in lieu of actually putting forth an effort. The passive facial expression, smirk, dead eyes and lack of makeup all speak to this. I imagine this is SF, although the pic looks like NYC.

For FFS though that money she spends towards Select should be saved for a nosejob.
 

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The thirst is real. A 65 yo complaining about young men hitting her up, I totally believe it. What’s the world coming to? Wall? What wall?

I remember young guys complaining about older men going after their target age women, meanwhile they’re hitting up 65yo’s.

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The thirst is real. A 65 yo complaining about young men hitting her up, I totally believe it. What’s the world coming to? Wall? What wall?

I remember young guys complaining about older men going after their target age women, meanwhile they’re hitting up 65yo’s.

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This is astounding. Why would men under 40 or even under 50 be initiating contact with a 65 year old woman? I would expect 65+ men to start interactions with her.

It seems like it would stink to be 65 and on Bumble looking for penis.
 

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My sister is in her 40's and often has guys in their 20's hit on her. I've witnessed it in person several times.

Just because you think one way doesn't mean the opposite doesn't happen on a regular basis.

It's really anything goes out there.

If she has a pu$$y there will always be some guy wanting to get in it. Like it or not, That's a fact boys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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