"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Actually one of the unspoken benefits is that a lot of these women are NOT millennial or younger. They are coming out of 20 or 30 year marriages that failed and it’s normally the dude that f-d up. And their body count is single digits.

They’re classy, know how to behave in relationships and they’re minxes in bed once you unlock them if you know how to. Hell they often think “kinky” is doggie style. They also rarely know how to give head - the bonus is they want to and you can train them to suit you.

Of course there are 304’s but each man needs to devise his own strategies to avoid them…
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WTF did I just watch? o_O
Can it be unseen and undone again PLEASE?
 

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You've simply got to be ruthless in the early interaction stages with OLD.
Its worse post covid though. Old before 2021 was not easy but it was far far more easy then. Not only a lot more hot pre wall women but overall a lot easier to navigate and get some traction with less effort. Interaction was easy then. 60 percent of the time easy to get their number. Less ghosting.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's pretty standard in Northern California, USA. of those that are HWP and not ogres. My first impression of the pro headshot is careerist and professional dater and serial monogamist, NEXT.

Why don't I see women like this on OLD that often anymore?
 

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She's pretty standard in Northern California, USA. of those that are HWP and not ogres. My first impression of the pro headshot is careerist and professional dater and serial monogamist, NEXT.
The passive eyes and the smirk are dead giveaways
 

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She's pretty standard in Northern California, USA. of those that are HWP and not ogres. My first impression of the pro headshot is careerist and professional dater and serial monogamist, NEXT.
Actually, some news chick I saw out and about, she's married actually from guy she met in college. Hot AF though.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Throuple.

Women were made to be penetrated, a dildo isn’t the same as man. Often one in a couple is the more girly if the two, often the more butch one will allow her to be done by a man, often they will participate as well. If they’re both good looking and you can get in, your in for a decent ride if you can be cool. The more butch one will sometimes allow you to tap as well. For women sex is much more fluid than for heterosexual men.


A lesbian couple with a child and a dog looking for a man. I don't understand.
 

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Throuple.

Women were made to be penetrated, a dildo isn’t the same as man. Often one in a couple is the more girly if the two, often the more butch one will allow her to be done by a man, often they will participate as well. If they’re both good looking and you can get in, your in for a decent ride if you can be cool. The more butch one will sometimes allow you to tap as well. For women sex is much more fluid than for heterosexual men.
That would be more bisexual than lesbian but the rest of the explanation makes sense.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is ridiculous. She's 40 and she's not a spectacular looking 40 year old either. The face is mediocre at best. She doesn't look overweight, which is good. On looks, she's a swipe left.

Her personality is complete dog shiit though.

I'll answer her questions on my White privilege as a heterosexual White male.

I have never experienced White privilege as a 40 year old, early Millennial White male.

I have experienced getting rejected by colleges for admission while minorities with lower GPAs got accepted to the programs where I wanted to get accepted. That's discrimination against a White person, not privilege.

I have experienced situations where I've interviewed for jobs and didn't get the jobs. I checked who got the job I interviewed for while using LinkedIn after the fact. Most often, it was a lesser qualified minority and/or female candidate. That's discrimination against a White person, not privilege.

If I were a minority and female today, I would be higher paid and have a more impressive title in my white collar line of work. Once again, that's discrimination against a White person, not privilege.

I think I have a very good understanding of my White privilege based upon those examples above.

Why doesn't she tell me about how she's experienced privilege as an LBGTQ White woman who identifies as a woman? She has more privilege than I have.

It's amazing that she's a psychologist because she doesn't seem like she's in a good place to help people.

The SF Bay Area, Portland, and Seattle are magnets for this stuff.
 
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This is ridiculous. She's 40 and she's not a spectacular looking 40 year old either. The face is mediocre at best. She doesn't look overweight, which is good. On looks, she's a swipe left.

Her personality is complete dog shiit though.

I'll answer her questions on my White privilege as a heterosexual White male.

I have never experienced White privilege as a 40 year old, early Millennial White male.

I have experienced getting rejected by colleges for admission while minorities with lower GPAs got accepted to the programs where I wanted to get accepted. That's discrimination against a White person, not privilege.

I have experienced situations where I've interviewed for jobs and didn't get the jobs. I checked who got the job I interviewed for while using LinkedIn after the fact. Most often, it was a lesser qualified minority and/or female candidate. That's discrimination against a White person, not privilege.

If I were a minority and female today, I would be higher paid and have a more impressive title in my white collar line of work. Once again, that's discrimination against a White person, not privilege.

I think I have a very good understanding of my White privilege based upon those examples above.

Why doesn't she tell me about how she's experienced privilege as an LBGTQ White woman who identifies as a woman? She has more privilege than I have.

It's amazing that she's a psychologist because she doesn't seem like she's in a good place to help people.

The SF Bay Area, Portland, and Seattle are magnets for this stuff.
She's a shrink because she's nuts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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