Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Rana is a common nickname for girls in Italy. It means frog. Term of endearment.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tbf, it's not easy being green.Rana is a common nickname for girls in Italy. It means frog. Term of endearment.
I wouldn't if I were you, I know what she can doYes, her likely nutcase status is why she's using Bumble at age 35.
I agree with your sentences about her pose.
I asked her if she was a virgin.....42yo, tatted up, and these pics make her look way better than she is. View attachment 10655 View attachment 10656
This is same one that I posted before. Educated at degree level…like that matters these days. I’ve met lots of so called well educated people who were clueless.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
typical trash I see on the OLD sites around here.Once again this the average in my area, just wow
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
37? She looks like a grandma, Benjamin Button, and a dinosaur had a baby. A really old babyNo clue how guys are sturggling with online dating when you batshyt crazies like this lmfaoo
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's OLD. It's literally not even useable now. Too much trash.37? She looks like a grandma, Benjamin Button, and a dinosaur had a baby. A really old baby
The first looked hot in the thumbnail, but then I realized she's clearly lying about her age with those jowls and sunglasses to hide her crows feet.Once again this the average in my area, just wow
Oh lord the 2nd one. Breast feeding on a fukking public dating app. Now I've seen it all.I got a few more than I'm done cause honestly it's a waste of my time, but I enjoy the entertainment value of reading these
Ain't gonna lie I'd hit it, but kids are a deal breaker for me.I've matched with this chic(in the red dress) 3 times on hinge/bumble. The first time the convo fizzled out. Second time I deleted her. Third time I asked her "what's the deal, can't find any good guys?". She told me it was hard finding a guy that wanted to have a baby. They all had kids already or didn't want any. She is 40yo, spent her good years focused on her career, and now she can't find a man to make a baby with. Lol. Stupid.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.