"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I had a blast at a party lat night. Loud music, hot girls, etc. But I have a question, do girls like to have guys dancing on them. Like if I approached a girl from behind, and started to dance with her, would she care? I never asked before, I just did it. I am pretty cool (not the coolest, but people do know me and like me). Should I begin to ask, because one girl did walk away last night when I started to dance with her; in which she was the only one. A lot of drunk girls were dancing with me, but they don't necessarily count--So, to answer my question do most girls like to be grinded on or would it be better to ask?

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First of all wrong section, I'm sure a mod will move this thread once he see's it.

About your question, always try to approach girls when they can see you. This increases your chance of success and also doesn't creep them out when some stranger starts rubbing up on their back.

However with that said, if you have confidence and charisma on the dance floor, you shouldn't have any problem finding willing and able drunk slvts to grind all over.

Lastly, never formally ask a girl who's already on the dance floor if you can grind her...LOL Just go for it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, gotta play the percentages.



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Pimp-sicle said:
First of all wrong section, I'm sure a mod will move this thread once he see's it.

About your question, always try to approach girls when they can see you. This increases your chance of success and also doesn't creep them out when some stranger starts rubbing up on their back.

However with that said, if you have confidence and charisma on the dance floor, you shouldn't have any problem finding willing and able drunk slvts to grind all over.

Lastly, never formally ask a girl who's already on the dance floor if you can grind her...LOL Just go for it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, gotta play the percentages.



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Well said. I have absolutely no problem grabing girls from behind and start dancing with them. At time, I grab her even if she's already dancing with some dude and I sense her boredom with the dude. Remember, the first 60seconds on a dance floor is very crusial. You should be able to demonstrate your dancing talents within this time frame. This being said, if you know you're not a good dancer, don't try grabing her from behind. Much more grab her while she's already dancing with someone.
 
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Yeah, I am a pretty average dancer. I would definitely like to improve, but I think girls can sometimes see the lack of confidence when I dance, which is my negative opinion. I am not bad, but I know I could/need to do better.

Yeah, I never asked the girls if I could, but last year I usually did. I did this because I was going through a period of lacked confidence, but am now over it. I also came this lame excuse from the girl I liked, so that really pissed me off and made me stop asking.

Last night, I had a fun time with the girls, but I gotta step up my game at dances/clubs in the future?

Any tips?
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chicks Just Dig Me said:
Any comments guys? I would like an answer...Thanks.
Then post in the right forum.

Chicks Just Dig Me said:
IBut I have a question, do girls like to have guys dancing on them.
Depends on how attractive you are.

You'd be surprised what you can get away with with a girl who's "in state". And dancing DOES do that to them.
 
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Search the forums, dude.
 
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