"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I had a blast at a party lat night. Loud music, hot girls, etc. But I have a question, do girls like to have guys dancing on them. Like if I approached a girl from behind, and started to dance with her, would she care? I never asked before, I just did it. I am pretty cool (not the coolest, but people do know me and like me). Should I begin to ask, because one girl did walk away last night when I started to dance with her; in which she was the only one. A lot of drunk girls were dancing with me, but they don't necessarily count--So, to answer my question do most girls like to be grinded on or would it be better to ask?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First of all wrong section, I'm sure a mod will move this thread once he see's it.

About your question, always try to approach girls when they can see you. This increases your chance of success and also doesn't creep them out when some stranger starts rubbing up on their back.

However with that said, if you have confidence and charisma on the dance floor, you shouldn't have any problem finding willing and able drunk slvts to grind all over.

Lastly, never formally ask a girl who's already on the dance floor if you can grind her...LOL Just go for it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, gotta play the percentages.



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Pimp-sicle said:
First of all wrong section, I'm sure a mod will move this thread once he see's it.

About your question, always try to approach girls when they can see you. This increases your chance of success and also doesn't creep them out when some stranger starts rubbing up on their back.

However with that said, if you have confidence and charisma on the dance floor, you shouldn't have any problem finding willing and able drunk slvts to grind all over.

Lastly, never formally ask a girl who's already on the dance floor if you can grind her...LOL Just go for it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, gotta play the percentages.



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Well said. I have absolutely no problem grabing girls from behind and start dancing with them. At time, I grab her even if she's already dancing with some dude and I sense her boredom with the dude. Remember, the first 60seconds on a dance floor is very crusial. You should be able to demonstrate your dancing talents within this time frame. This being said, if you know you're not a good dancer, don't try grabing her from behind. Much more grab her while she's already dancing with someone.
 
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Yeah, I am a pretty average dancer. I would definitely like to improve, but I think girls can sometimes see the lack of confidence when I dance, which is my negative opinion. I am not bad, but I know I could/need to do better.

Yeah, I never asked the girls if I could, but last year I usually did. I did this because I was going through a period of lacked confidence, but am now over it. I also came this lame excuse from the girl I liked, so that really pissed me off and made me stop asking.

Last night, I had a fun time with the girls, but I gotta step up my game at dances/clubs in the future?

Any tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chicks Just Dig Me said:
Any comments guys? I would like an answer...Thanks.
Then post in the right forum.

Chicks Just Dig Me said:
IBut I have a question, do girls like to have guys dancing on them.
Depends on how attractive you are.

You'd be surprised what you can get away with with a girl who's "in state". And dancing DOES do that to them.
 
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Search the forums, dude.
 
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