"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I had a blast at a party lat night. Loud music, hot girls, etc. But I have a question, do girls like to have guys dancing on them. Like if I approached a girl from behind, and started to dance with her, would she care? I never asked before, I just did it. I am pretty cool (not the coolest, but people do know me and like me). Should I begin to ask, because one girl did walk away last night when I started to dance with her; in which she was the only one. A lot of drunk girls were dancing with me, but they don't necessarily count--So, to answer my question do most girls like to be grinded on or would it be better to ask?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First of all wrong section, I'm sure a mod will move this thread once he see's it.

About your question, always try to approach girls when they can see you. This increases your chance of success and also doesn't creep them out when some stranger starts rubbing up on their back.

However with that said, if you have confidence and charisma on the dance floor, you shouldn't have any problem finding willing and able drunk slvts to grind all over.

Lastly, never formally ask a girl who's already on the dance floor if you can grind her...LOL Just go for it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, gotta play the percentages.



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Pimp-sicle said:
First of all wrong section, I'm sure a mod will move this thread once he see's it.

About your question, always try to approach girls when they can see you. This increases your chance of success and also doesn't creep them out when some stranger starts rubbing up on their back.

However with that said, if you have confidence and charisma on the dance floor, you shouldn't have any problem finding willing and able drunk slvts to grind all over.

Lastly, never formally ask a girl who's already on the dance floor if you can grind her...LOL Just go for it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, gotta play the percentages.



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Well said. I have absolutely no problem grabing girls from behind and start dancing with them. At time, I grab her even if she's already dancing with some dude and I sense her boredom with the dude. Remember, the first 60seconds on a dance floor is very crusial. You should be able to demonstrate your dancing talents within this time frame. This being said, if you know you're not a good dancer, don't try grabing her from behind. Much more grab her while she's already dancing with someone.
 
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Yeah, I am a pretty average dancer. I would definitely like to improve, but I think girls can sometimes see the lack of confidence when I dance, which is my negative opinion. I am not bad, but I know I could/need to do better.

Yeah, I never asked the girls if I could, but last year I usually did. I did this because I was going through a period of lacked confidence, but am now over it. I also came this lame excuse from the girl I liked, so that really pissed me off and made me stop asking.

Last night, I had a fun time with the girls, but I gotta step up my game at dances/clubs in the future?

Any tips?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chicks Just Dig Me said:
Any comments guys? I would like an answer...Thanks.
Then post in the right forum.

Chicks Just Dig Me said:
IBut I have a question, do girls like to have guys dancing on them.
Depends on how attractive you are.

You'd be surprised what you can get away with with a girl who's "in state". And dancing DOES do that to them.
 
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Search the forums, dude.
 
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