"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fun and different things to do with your woman

SmoothTalker

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Hey DJ's. I know there have been a bunch of date idea threads already, but I think this is a little different.

I'm sure we've all had relationships where things start out great but eventually you settle into a routine and it gets a little dull.

Lets list all of the things you can do with your woman in an LTR to keep things fun and interesting. Now preferably these are nothing to expensive, just fun and different.

I'll start out:
-hot air balloon ride
-camping
-dance lessons
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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vitor

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Road Trips
Ski Trips
Sex in Public
Take her Shooting
Putt Putt
Go look at Puppies
Try a new Restaurant
Get Drunk Together
Try new sex postions
Try new bars
Go on double dates
 

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Beyond having fun, just think of how she will tell her friends later about what you do together. She wants to impress her friends about the 'adventures' she has with her new boyfriend.

But if you have a 'dull' date according to her standards/desires, make sure it is something you want to do, even if she complains. She may communicate her disappointment to her gal pals, but it will be dramatic because you were in control and didn't take her whining.

Like one of my English teachers said: "Conflict is the essence of drama."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SmoothTalker

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Good ideas guys, keep em coming.

Yeah it's a shame about the hot air balloon rides being so much money. However, it does seem like a lot of fun and some people I know who have done it say it's a great experience. So maybe I'll try someday and let you know how that date goes.
 

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Thanks for reminding me about putt putt, my date mentioned she liked it


Thinking of other things to do

Walking a nature trail after a meal to 'walk it off'
going to u-pick blueberry farm
kareoke
picnic in the country or a park
fairs and feastivals
bowling
take a trainride (amazing how many have never done this)
rent a jet ski
drive looking at Christmas lights
a really nice coffee shop

I am always looking for affordable activities
 

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Six Flags (amusement parks)
walk somewhere
bowling

running out of things around here though
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollerblading in the park with some passionfruit sorbet :)

Learn an instrument together. Teach her to play some game that you like like Guitar Hero. In her mind, it will mean more because you are sharing an activity that you would otherwise do yourself
 

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* Ice Skating
* Squash together
* Boat trips / canal cruises
* Play a boardgame
* Nintendo Wii
* Go to the Zoo
 

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Miniature Golf
Renaissance Faire
Swimming
Bowling
Horseshoes
Wine Tasting (If you're over 21 obviously)
Ice Cream
 

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I know MORE than one woman that LOVES going to strip clubs.... My old oneiits used to literary BEG me to take her

SWIMMING!!!!

what better date? espically first? You get the easiest excuse ever for kino. it's FREE, and you get to see her damn near naked.And you are exercising
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Amusement parks are definitely worth it for the first date. They give you and HER EMOTIONS which she will associate with you.
 
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