Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Full Moon + monthly visitor=?

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Ok. Fess up. I know a few of you chronic BPD chick loving "DJs" have charted the possible effects of your "lunachicks" monthly visitor when it's occurred during a full moon.

We all know chicks get irritable during that time of the month and the pull of a full moon is said to effect some people...Since the majority of this site claims to date BPD chicks on a pretty consistant basis...has anyone ever thought about the full moon +monthly visitor effect? :crazy:

Dare we include the possibility of the two of you having conflicting Zodiac signs?? :nervous:

Discuss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My LTR is a nurse and the hospital she works at highlights on a big calendar the dates of the full moon because they've found they're really busy at these times with people hurting themselves doing crazy shyt.

No anecdotal evidence but I'd be sure some chicks on the rag will be even more out of control on a full moon.
 
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Moon->lunar->lunacy
Moon+period=>lunacyx19

Therefore - Banana.

Case closed :D
 
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Funny. I was discussing pms with a male friend yesterday. I never thought about the moon thing. I just know that things that don't normally bother me bug the hell out of me when it is that time of the month. I get sad over the dumbest sh!t but once my cycle is over I am back to normal. :eek: Some months I don't have pms at all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh yeah. I kept track of her cycles as closely as I could. It didn't hurt to have future warning of storms approaching.

Not so sure about the full moon stuff, though.
 
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moon goddess said:
Funny. I was discussing pms with a male friend yesterday. I never thought about the moon thing. I just know that things that don't normally bother me bug the hell out of me when it is that time of the month. I get sad over the dumbest sh!t but once my cycle is over I am back to normal. :eek: Some months I don't have pms at all.
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Really?? With a name like Moon Goddess a fellow mortal would think you'd have an iron grasp on all things moon-related! Go figure.
 
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