You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No sh!t sherlock. 1. Its common sense not to be an arrogant dousche. 2. Its being ****y/FUNNY.Originally posted by Phat
Just a lesson. That ****y technique will backfire if you over do it. I overdid it and blew my chance with this girl. I asked her later what was the problem. She was like YOUR TOO FULL OF UR SELF.
So guys keep the ****yness to a limit.
eh?Originally posted by undesputable
wow man, youve saved my life
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bump:yes:Originally posted by Jerky Boi
****y "+" Funny
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lolOriginally posted by undesputable
wow man, youve saved my life
There is a little C/F in all of us.... perhaps you're not doing it completely right? I mean you don't just go up to some girl and imply how much of a bit-ch you think she is. The neg hit should probably be saved for later on in the convo, or if she gives you the attitude. This "game" is really a battle of attitudes.... if you come off as the dominant figure, the guy who doesn't put up with her snotty behavior, you win. But anyway, a safe method is to just establish some rapport and then if/when she resists or gives attitude you break out the C/F on her as-s. C/F isn't about being an arrogant a-hole, but rather showing her you're a sociable, playful, down-to-earth man who has his crap together. You can be as nice as you want with this, but if you do nothing else, you gotta throw in some teasing. Nobody can deny the power of that, and if you have a pretty hot chick there, she should see you as a pretty nice package. I learned a long time ago that being a serious nice guy gets you zero girls. I like to say, "Be coc-ky with words, show her your nice side with your actions." Just do what you gotta do man. Do what works best for you.Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
I've tried the ****y/funny routine. It usually backfired since I did it AT FIRST APPROACH.
No woman, I don't care how hot or used to sycophantic behavior she is, wants to hear a neg-hit from a random stranger going for a number close.
I've approached HB's many times using C/F and gotten rejected, until I did it in front of a friend. Afterwards he said this:
Why'd you say that? You sounded like an *******.
That really hit home. C/F just isn't congruent with my personality. I have nothing to be ****y about, and I'm not particularly funny either.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.