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Master Don Juan
Supersquats anyone? Haha
20 rep deads will kill you. I hate/love them
20 rep deads will kill you. I hate/love them
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think you can switch to a parallel squat since you have a good strength base built at depth. I bet you'll be able hit some new PRs easily. Dont be afraid to attempt doubles and triples. Just make sure you have a mirror or training buddy to check your depth, because the mind can deceive you!Fuglydude said:Colossus, should I still do ATG squats or switch to box/parallel squats. I've grown quite accustomed to ATG squats, and I'm not sure how my numbers would be w/ a parallel squat.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
your are correct. typical lifts , while beneficial, do not incorporate fast twitch fibers and linked core strength in order to perform them. The Olympic lifts test and improve ones overall athletic ability for this reason. I started doing them when I was training for rugby and hockey and they have helped a great deal more than the typical lifts from back in my beginning days.Fuglydude said:I think those lifts have a great beneficial effect on overall athletic ability (which affects aesthetics), as well as real life applications, ei: being strong, explosive when hauling stuff around, etc.
This is not true, you can improve athletic performance without olympic lifts.he Olympic lifts test and improve ones overall athletic ability for this reason. I started doing them when I was training for rugby and hockey and they have helped a great deal more than the typical lifts from back in my beginning days.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Me too...Fuglydude said:300 x 5 would be great! I hope my progress on squats translates to a better deadlift.
I'm not sure what the technical name for it is, so I just call it the atlas squat, as its a little bit like lifting atlas stones.Kerpal said:What is Atlas squat?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.