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Master Don Juan
Supersquats anyone? Haha
20 rep deads will kill you. I hate/love them
20 rep deads will kill you. I hate/love them
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think you can switch to a parallel squat since you have a good strength base built at depth. I bet you'll be able hit some new PRs easily. Dont be afraid to attempt doubles and triples. Just make sure you have a mirror or training buddy to check your depth, because the mind can deceive you!Fuglydude said:Colossus, should I still do ATG squats or switch to box/parallel squats. I've grown quite accustomed to ATG squats, and I'm not sure how my numbers would be w/ a parallel squat.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
your are correct. typical lifts , while beneficial, do not incorporate fast twitch fibers and linked core strength in order to perform them. The Olympic lifts test and improve ones overall athletic ability for this reason. I started doing them when I was training for rugby and hockey and they have helped a great deal more than the typical lifts from back in my beginning days.Fuglydude said:I think those lifts have a great beneficial effect on overall athletic ability (which affects aesthetics), as well as real life applications, ei: being strong, explosive when hauling stuff around, etc.
This is not true, you can improve athletic performance without olympic lifts.he Olympic lifts test and improve ones overall athletic ability for this reason. I started doing them when I was training for rugby and hockey and they have helped a great deal more than the typical lifts from back in my beginning days.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Me too...Fuglydude said:300 x 5 would be great! I hope my progress on squats translates to a better deadlift.
I'm not sure what the technical name for it is, so I just call it the atlas squat, as its a little bit like lifting atlas stones.Kerpal said:What is Atlas squat?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.