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Master Don Juan
Supersquats anyone? Haha
20 rep deads will kill you. I hate/love them
20 rep deads will kill you. I hate/love them
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think you can switch to a parallel squat since you have a good strength base built at depth. I bet you'll be able hit some new PRs easily. Dont be afraid to attempt doubles and triples. Just make sure you have a mirror or training buddy to check your depth, because the mind can deceive you!Fuglydude said:Colossus, should I still do ATG squats or switch to box/parallel squats. I've grown quite accustomed to ATG squats, and I'm not sure how my numbers would be w/ a parallel squat.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
your are correct. typical lifts , while beneficial, do not incorporate fast twitch fibers and linked core strength in order to perform them. The Olympic lifts test and improve ones overall athletic ability for this reason. I started doing them when I was training for rugby and hockey and they have helped a great deal more than the typical lifts from back in my beginning days.Fuglydude said:I think those lifts have a great beneficial effect on overall athletic ability (which affects aesthetics), as well as real life applications, ei: being strong, explosive when hauling stuff around, etc.
This is not true, you can improve athletic performance without olympic lifts.he Olympic lifts test and improve ones overall athletic ability for this reason. I started doing them when I was training for rugby and hockey and they have helped a great deal more than the typical lifts from back in my beginning days.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Me too...Fuglydude said:300 x 5 would be great! I hope my progress on squats translates to a better deadlift.
I'm not sure what the technical name for it is, so I just call it the atlas squat, as its a little bit like lifting atlas stones.Kerpal said:What is Atlas squat?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.