"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FUBAR! I need some urgent advice!

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Here's the situation:

Wife & I been separated over 2 years. We have a son.
For my son's sake, I would like to be a family. I love my wife & she has said she wants to work things out and be a family.

She just broke up w/ her boyfriend..who is a national level bodybuilder. ( I'm a pasty white schmoo. )

So..over the course of the 2 years we've been separated, she's slept w/ 2 guys..a marine, and this bodybuilder.

I've dated one woman. ( For about a year. ) She's no slouch, though. She's won lots of bikini contests, been a fitness model, and modeled lingerie.

My wife says that in order to work things out, I have to break up w/ this woman ( which is fair ). But I get along w/ this woman great, I really love her, and we have no issues.

I DO have an issue though, w/ this ex-boyfriend bodybuilder. It's really affecting my confidence. Should I go for my wife, or stay w/ the lingerie model?

My son benifits if I'm w/ my wife, I'm just afraid I'll be thinking about her doing this bodybuilder every time we have sex.

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Thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well this isnt the first post youve made about your wife, if i recall theres been quite a few, that should tell you something.

i think if shes giving you ultimatums her heart really isnt into it and i believe if you get back with her we will see a post in a few months telling us how she was knocking the marine/weightlifter whatever off on the side.

and i know that getting back together just for the kid is silly and does even more harm than 2 seperated happy parents ever would.

why not stick with the model and every other chick who takes your fancy, what can the wife offer that these other ladies cant? apart from more drama.

obviously i dont know the full story and am just giving you a likely scenario.
 
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Your ex wife gets banged by two guys (plus add 3 or 4 more she didn't tell you about) and you want her back?? Huh?? Have you no dignity??

The weightlifter rammed her like he was in a competition on steroids frothing at the mouth, and the Marine banged her with a vengeance as if she was an enemy combatant!!

Say no to ex-wife hos!!!
 
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