Here's the situation:
Wife & I been separated over 2 years. We have a son.
For my son's sake, I would like to be a family. I love my wife & she has said she wants to work things out and be a family.
She just broke up w/ her boyfriend..who is a national level bodybuilder. ( I'm a pasty white schmoo. )
So..over the course of the 2 years we've been separated, she's slept w/ 2 guys..a marine, and this bodybuilder.
I've dated one woman. ( For about a year. ) She's no slouch, though. She's won lots of bikini contests, been a fitness model, and modeled lingerie.
My wife says that in order to work things out, I have to break up w/ this woman ( which is fair ). But I get along w/ this woman great, I really love her, and we have no issues.
I DO have an issue though, w/ this ex-boyfriend bodybuilder. It's really affecting my confidence. Should I go for my wife, or stay w/ the lingerie model?
My son benifits if I'm w/ my wife, I'm just afraid I'll be thinking about her doing this bodybuilder every time we have sex.
Thoughts?
Wife & I been separated over 2 years. We have a son.
For my son's sake, I would like to be a family. I love my wife & she has said she wants to work things out and be a family.
She just broke up w/ her boyfriend..who is a national level bodybuilder. ( I'm a pasty white schmoo. )
So..over the course of the 2 years we've been separated, she's slept w/ 2 guys..a marine, and this bodybuilder.
I've dated one woman. ( For about a year. ) She's no slouch, though. She's won lots of bikini contests, been a fitness model, and modeled lingerie.
My wife says that in order to work things out, I have to break up w/ this woman ( which is fair ). But I get along w/ this woman great, I really love her, and we have no issues.
I DO have an issue though, w/ this ex-boyfriend bodybuilder. It's really affecting my confidence. Should I go for my wife, or stay w/ the lingerie model?
My son benifits if I'm w/ my wife, I'm just afraid I'll be thinking about her doing this bodybuilder every time we have sex.
Thoughts?