"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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FUBAR! I need some urgent advice!

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Here's the situation:

Wife & I been separated over 2 years. We have a son.
For my son's sake, I would like to be a family. I love my wife & she has said she wants to work things out and be a family.

She just broke up w/ her boyfriend..who is a national level bodybuilder. ( I'm a pasty white schmoo. )

So..over the course of the 2 years we've been separated, she's slept w/ 2 guys..a marine, and this bodybuilder.

I've dated one woman. ( For about a year. ) She's no slouch, though. She's won lots of bikini contests, been a fitness model, and modeled lingerie.

My wife says that in order to work things out, I have to break up w/ this woman ( which is fair ). But I get along w/ this woman great, I really love her, and we have no issues.

I DO have an issue though, w/ this ex-boyfriend bodybuilder. It's really affecting my confidence. Should I go for my wife, or stay w/ the lingerie model?

My son benifits if I'm w/ my wife, I'm just afraid I'll be thinking about her doing this bodybuilder every time we have sex.

:confused:

Thoughts?
 

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well this isnt the first post youve made about your wife, if i recall theres been quite a few, that should tell you something.

i think if shes giving you ultimatums her heart really isnt into it and i believe if you get back with her we will see a post in a few months telling us how she was knocking the marine/weightlifter whatever off on the side.

and i know that getting back together just for the kid is silly and does even more harm than 2 seperated happy parents ever would.

why not stick with the model and every other chick who takes your fancy, what can the wife offer that these other ladies cant? apart from more drama.

obviously i dont know the full story and am just giving you a likely scenario.
 
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Your ex wife gets banged by two guys (plus add 3 or 4 more she didn't tell you about) and you want her back?? Huh?? Have you no dignity??

The weightlifter rammed her like he was in a competition on steroids frothing at the mouth, and the Marine banged her with a vengeance as if she was an enemy combatant!!

Say no to ex-wife hos!!!
 
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