"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey!

Its pretty easy for me to talk to ANY girl but after that, I screw it up. So what happened was this, I met this girl at a party at 3 am. She was pretty hot and seemed really cool. I started flirting with her, using kino as hell and we were really into each other.
We didnt hook up there but almost. Always giving massages, kisses and using kino one with each other. So, she invinted me to go to the club. I thought "Cool, gonna hook up with her there"
Was happy as hell. When I get to the club she starts talking to her friend and 10 minutes later is hooking with him! I mean like, wtf? Is she just a *****? Should I still try to hook with her? Many thanks!
EDIT -- She just called and said "Do you wanna come to my house? (Name of the guy he hooked with) is coming, but you can come too if you want.." I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend."

Thanks for the replies and excuse the long post.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would just say "Next" and if you are really bored and she calls, just go out with her. But if she says some other guy is coming I wouldn't go. It makes her feel good to have all of these guys after her and her getting to pick.
 
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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I would just say "Next" and if you are really bored and she calls, just go out with her. But if she says some other guy is coming I wouldn't go. It makes her feel good to have all of these guys after her and her getting to pick.
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Yeah, Next it is. Probably still gonna try, but not gonna worry about her. And Im definitly not gonna play her game and make her feel good...
 
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Next, next, next.

This one sounds like she has earned herself a degree in the art of c**k-tease. Don't give her any attention. She's not woth it.
 
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She's trying to play you, Chump. She wanted a gang bang. C'mon man get with it.!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Pipizito
I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend
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good call

next time, just say you have better things to do. girls like that aren't worth dirt
 
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