"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hey!

Its pretty easy for me to talk to ANY girl but after that, I screw it up. So what happened was this, I met this girl at a party at 3 am. She was pretty hot and seemed really cool. I started flirting with her, using kino as hell and we were really into each other.
We didnt hook up there but almost. Always giving massages, kisses and using kino one with each other. So, she invinted me to go to the club. I thought "Cool, gonna hook up with her there"
Was happy as hell. When I get to the club she starts talking to her friend and 10 minutes later is hooking with him! I mean like, wtf? Is she just a *****? Should I still try to hook with her? Many thanks!
EDIT -- She just called and said "Do you wanna come to my house? (Name of the guy he hooked with) is coming, but you can come too if you want.." I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend."

Thanks for the replies and excuse the long post.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would just say "Next" and if you are really bored and she calls, just go out with her. But if she says some other guy is coming I wouldn't go. It makes her feel good to have all of these guys after her and her getting to pick.
 
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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I would just say "Next" and if you are really bored and she calls, just go out with her. But if she says some other guy is coming I wouldn't go. It makes her feel good to have all of these guys after her and her getting to pick.
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Yeah, Next it is. Probably still gonna try, but not gonna worry about her. And Im definitly not gonna play her game and make her feel good...
 
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Next, next, next.

This one sounds like she has earned herself a degree in the art of c**k-tease. Don't give her any attention. She's not woth it.
 
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She's trying to play you, Chump. She wanted a gang bang. C'mon man get with it.!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Pipizito
I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend
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good call

next time, just say you have better things to do. girls like that aren't worth dirt
 
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