"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey!

Its pretty easy for me to talk to ANY girl but after that, I screw it up. So what happened was this, I met this girl at a party at 3 am. She was pretty hot and seemed really cool. I started flirting with her, using kino as hell and we were really into each other.
We didnt hook up there but almost. Always giving massages, kisses and using kino one with each other. So, she invinted me to go to the club. I thought "Cool, gonna hook up with her there"
Was happy as hell. When I get to the club she starts talking to her friend and 10 minutes later is hooking with him! I mean like, wtf? Is she just a *****? Should I still try to hook with her? Many thanks!
EDIT -- She just called and said "Do you wanna come to my house? (Name of the guy he hooked with) is coming, but you can come too if you want.." I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend."

Thanks for the replies and excuse the long post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would just say "Next" and if you are really bored and she calls, just go out with her. But if she says some other guy is coming I wouldn't go. It makes her feel good to have all of these guys after her and her getting to pick.
 
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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I would just say "Next" and if you are really bored and she calls, just go out with her. But if she says some other guy is coming I wouldn't go. It makes her feel good to have all of these guys after her and her getting to pick.
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Yeah, Next it is. Probably still gonna try, but not gonna worry about her. And Im definitly not gonna play her game and make her feel good...
 
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Next, next, next.

This one sounds like she has earned herself a degree in the art of c**k-tease. Don't give her any attention. She's not woth it.
 
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She's trying to play you, Chump. She wanted a gang bang. C'mon man get with it.!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Pipizito
I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend
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good call

next time, just say you have better things to do. girls like that aren't worth dirt
 
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