"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Frustrating Situation

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WORKEROUTER

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This situation I'm in is confusing and irritating. Last night I was with a girl, doing a bunch of stuff, and we were both having a great time. I see her today, tell her to come over, and she makes an excuse why she can't and acts like she's not that interested. I played it cool and told her another day, to which she said maybe (not a great response).

I was stumped. It seems like she was having a great time, but then she doesn't really act interested. Has this occured with you guys? Could it be that maybe she's just having a bad day for whatever reason?

Also, what's the best way to handle a situation like this? Let her call to schedule something?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you want to guage her interest in you just ignore her until she contacts you.. then maybe ask her out again... Just say im going to XYZ on this day and at this time and would you like to join me.

It seems like you have initiated... meanwhile maybe try to ask out another girl in the process.

I hope this is good advice im not a DJ yet... Maybe others will chime in.
 
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Even though you thought she was having a good time, you either 1) ****ed up incredibly somewhere along the line 2) bad judge of body language.
 
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It happens after awhile.

I give them a second chance and call the day after or after that.Ask them if there's something up.

You can't just move on and go from girl to girl cuz they all do something like that.They're just testing you to see if you're "for real".
 
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Some bytches get spoiled with attention. So when you withdraw that attention, they come running back.

Try to reduce the amount of attention you give her. Better yet, play a little bit of Ganji with her. This is a good test of her interest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She could be playing the "hard to get" game. just back off for now and approach her when you are not feeling frustrated.
 
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