"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Frustrating Situation

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WORKEROUTER

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This situation I'm in is confusing and irritating. Last night I was with a girl, doing a bunch of stuff, and we were both having a great time. I see her today, tell her to come over, and she makes an excuse why she can't and acts like she's not that interested. I played it cool and told her another day, to which she said maybe (not a great response).

I was stumped. It seems like she was having a great time, but then she doesn't really act interested. Has this occured with you guys? Could it be that maybe she's just having a bad day for whatever reason?

Also, what's the best way to handle a situation like this? Let her call to schedule something?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TizZle

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If you want to guage her interest in you just ignore her until she contacts you.. then maybe ask her out again... Just say im going to XYZ on this day and at this time and would you like to join me.

It seems like you have initiated... meanwhile maybe try to ask out another girl in the process.

I hope this is good advice im not a DJ yet... Maybe others will chime in.
 
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FreeStyleZ

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Even though you thought she was having a good time, you either 1) ****ed up incredibly somewhere along the line 2) bad judge of body language.
 
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Tha Realnezz

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It happens after awhile.

I give them a second chance and call the day after or after that.Ask them if there's something up.

You can't just move on and go from girl to girl cuz they all do something like that.They're just testing you to see if you're "for real".
 
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Some bytches get spoiled with attention. So when you withdraw that attention, they come running back.

Try to reduce the amount of attention you give her. Better yet, play a little bit of Ganji with her. This is a good test of her interest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She could be playing the "hard to get" game. just back off for now and approach her when you are not feeling frustrated.
 
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