Frustrating Situation

[WORKEROUTER]

This situation I'm in is confusing and irritating. Last night I was with a girl, doing a bunch of stuff, and we were both having a great time. I see her today, tell her to come over, and she makes an excuse why she can't and acts like she's not that interested. I played it cool and told her another day, to which she said maybe (not a great response).

I was stumped. It seems like she was having a great time, but then she doesn't really act interested. Has this occured with you guys? Could it be that maybe she's just having a bad day for whatever reason?

Also, what's the best way to handle a situation like this? Let her call to schedule something?

Thanks

 

[TizZle]

If you want to guage her interest in you just ignore her until she contacts you.. then maybe ask her out again... Just say im going to XYZ on this day and at this time and would you like to join me.

It seems like you have initiated... meanwhile maybe try to ask out another girl in the process.

I hope this is good advice im not a DJ yet... Maybe others will chime in.

 

[FreeStyleZ]

Even though you thought she was having a good time, you either 1) ****ed up incredibly somewhere along the line 2) bad judge of body language.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

It happens after awhile.

I give them a second chance and call the day after or after that.Ask them if there's something up.

You can't just move on and go from girl to girl cuz they all do something like that.They're just testing you to see if you're "for real".

 

[sapphire]

Some bytches get spoiled with attention. So when you withdraw that attention, they come running back.

Try to reduce the amount of attention you give her. Better yet, play a little bit of Ganji with her. This is a good test of her interest.

 

[DeathDealer]

She could be playing the "hard to get" game. just back off for now and approach her when you are not feeling frustrated.

 

[Desdinova]

She could be flaking. Don't bother calling for a while. Give her a good week and a half. If she flakes again, ditch her.