"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Frustrated w/ the dating game

Wiesman44

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AH man. Im just venting. Feel free to respond if u wish. Every girl that I date, it seems like, I just get ****ed over with.


I date a girl in June. Completely wrong for me. But i want a$$. She turns out to be a complete b#tch. I thank her for that, she was the most critical person I ever knew. She helped me out a lot.

I date a girl in early July. Met her at a party. She thought I was extremely attractive. We hang out twice. She never calls again. She ends up getting back w/ her ex that she broke up w/ 2 weeks earlier.

I date a girl in mid July. Same thing, met at a party. She was extremely into me. We hang out, talk on the phone for hours. Text each other often. THen today she says she's sorry but her ex is back in her life.


There's others too. I mean, i have a girl i regularly hookup with, but im looking for a g/f and she's not it. I'm sick of getting screwed over by every girl I meet. I've gone out on dates w/ 4 girls this summer (starting May). Is that bad ? Is that not enough ? I feel like I'm completely striking out. I game them, they show interest, want me after first date, and then it goes downhill from there.

Sorry guys for venting, i just had to. I dont know if I want to be a DJ like u guys. When crap like this happens, it affects me. I cant help it. I just want a relationship. I do enjoy hitting on lots of girls though. Maybe you all have some advice for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TxCowboy

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Sup dude! I just got back in the dating game after 2 months with a bad h0. You just gotta be positive and NEVER QUIT trying ....

I also noticed you said your looking for a relationship, which is a bad mentality to be in at this point - your gonna mess it all up unless you go at it with the attitude of just having fun to start out with ....Girls can sense this sh1t a mile aways!

Perhaps your looking in the wrong places for chicks?

BTW ... dont ever talk to girls so much like you said above (Hours on phone ?) - that just makes u clingy and needy ... danger zone ... Busy , busy, busy, busy should ALWAYS be your attitude
 

Wiesman44

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Sorry, meant to say 1 hr on the phone. But yah, your right about the relationship mentality. But how do I get away from that ?
 
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