Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Frustrated w/ the dating game

Wiesman44

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AH man. Im just venting. Feel free to respond if u wish. Every girl that I date, it seems like, I just get ****ed over with.


I date a girl in June. Completely wrong for me. But i want a$$. She turns out to be a complete b#tch. I thank her for that, she was the most critical person I ever knew. She helped me out a lot.

I date a girl in early July. Met her at a party. She thought I was extremely attractive. We hang out twice. She never calls again. She ends up getting back w/ her ex that she broke up w/ 2 weeks earlier.

I date a girl in mid July. Same thing, met at a party. She was extremely into me. We hang out, talk on the phone for hours. Text each other often. THen today she says she's sorry but her ex is back in her life.


There's others too. I mean, i have a girl i regularly hookup with, but im looking for a g/f and she's not it. I'm sick of getting screwed over by every girl I meet. I've gone out on dates w/ 4 girls this summer (starting May). Is that bad ? Is that not enough ? I feel like I'm completely striking out. I game them, they show interest, want me after first date, and then it goes downhill from there.

Sorry guys for venting, i just had to. I dont know if I want to be a DJ like u guys. When crap like this happens, it affects me. I cant help it. I just want a relationship. I do enjoy hitting on lots of girls though. Maybe you all have some advice for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TxCowboy

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Sup dude! I just got back in the dating game after 2 months with a bad h0. You just gotta be positive and NEVER QUIT trying ....

I also noticed you said your looking for a relationship, which is a bad mentality to be in at this point - your gonna mess it all up unless you go at it with the attitude of just having fun to start out with ....Girls can sense this sh1t a mile aways!

Perhaps your looking in the wrong places for chicks?

BTW ... dont ever talk to girls so much like you said above (Hours on phone ?) - that just makes u clingy and needy ... danger zone ... Busy , busy, busy, busy should ALWAYS be your attitude
 

Wiesman44

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Sorry, meant to say 1 hr on the phone. But yah, your right about the relationship mentality. But how do I get away from that ?
 
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