"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Frustrated w/ the dating game

Wiesman44

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AH man. Im just venting. Feel free to respond if u wish. Every girl that I date, it seems like, I just get ****ed over with.


I date a girl in June. Completely wrong for me. But i want a$$. She turns out to be a complete b#tch. I thank her for that, she was the most critical person I ever knew. She helped me out a lot.

I date a girl in early July. Met her at a party. She thought I was extremely attractive. We hang out twice. She never calls again. She ends up getting back w/ her ex that she broke up w/ 2 weeks earlier.

I date a girl in mid July. Same thing, met at a party. She was extremely into me. We hang out, talk on the phone for hours. Text each other often. THen today she says she's sorry but her ex is back in her life.


There's others too. I mean, i have a girl i regularly hookup with, but im looking for a g/f and she's not it. I'm sick of getting screwed over by every girl I meet. I've gone out on dates w/ 4 girls this summer (starting May). Is that bad ? Is that not enough ? I feel like I'm completely striking out. I game them, they show interest, want me after first date, and then it goes downhill from there.

Sorry guys for venting, i just had to. I dont know if I want to be a DJ like u guys. When crap like this happens, it affects me. I cant help it. I just want a relationship. I do enjoy hitting on lots of girls though. Maybe you all have some advice for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TxCowboy

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Sup dude! I just got back in the dating game after 2 months with a bad h0. You just gotta be positive and NEVER QUIT trying ....

I also noticed you said your looking for a relationship, which is a bad mentality to be in at this point - your gonna mess it all up unless you go at it with the attitude of just having fun to start out with ....Girls can sense this sh1t a mile aways!

Perhaps your looking in the wrong places for chicks?

BTW ... dont ever talk to girls so much like you said above (Hours on phone ?) - that just makes u clingy and needy ... danger zone ... Busy , busy, busy, busy should ALWAYS be your attitude
 

Wiesman44

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Sorry, meant to say 1 hr on the phone. But yah, your right about the relationship mentality. But how do I get away from that ?
 
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