“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I kept running into a girl I liked from my AFC days this summer. My AFC was definitely the problem back then - she is an 8. Is it a lost cause with someone like that?

All the ****y, funny with light kino at the party we both were at this weekend was working. Thing is I'm going to have to call her up since summer is out and she is back in school as there won't be any further random run-ins unless I create one.

Any ideas for a previous AFC?
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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it's an uphill battle, but it can be very rewarding. don't spend so much time analyzing this chick. just go with the flow and accept her IL for what it is.
 
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Thats what I've been doing is just accepting the IL and nothing more. Is it a lost cause to DJ her now?
 
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It is usually an uphill venture because girls usually remember you as the old AFC not the new and improved DJ. But, it is not impossible. Just don't sweat it and always have other options.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Actually, DJ her without expectation of a payoff. She provides a unique challenge: you became an AFC before her very eyes, and now you have to work against that and reverse it.

Very good practice.

And if you're no longer an AFC, you are the new and developing 'you' anyway, and will counteract her old impressions of you without trying.
 
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Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Actually, DJ her without expectation of a payoff. She provides a unique challenge: you became an AFC before her very eyes, and now you have to work against that and reverse it.

Very good practice.
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Very incisive.I think of myself as a DJ in training I always DJ as well as I can cos my intention is to get better at DJing. Getting mad clam is a bonus :D
 
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