"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I kept running into a girl I liked from my AFC days this summer. My AFC was definitely the problem back then - she is an 8. Is it a lost cause with someone like that?

All the ****y, funny with light kino at the party we both were at this weekend was working. Thing is I'm going to have to call her up since summer is out and she is back in school as there won't be any further random run-ins unless I create one.

Any ideas for a previous AFC?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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it's an uphill battle, but it can be very rewarding. don't spend so much time analyzing this chick. just go with the flow and accept her IL for what it is.
 
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Thats what I've been doing is just accepting the IL and nothing more. Is it a lost cause to DJ her now?
 
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It is usually an uphill venture because girls usually remember you as the old AFC not the new and improved DJ. But, it is not impossible. Just don't sweat it and always have other options.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Actually, DJ her without expectation of a payoff. She provides a unique challenge: you became an AFC before her very eyes, and now you have to work against that and reverse it.

Very good practice.

And if you're no longer an AFC, you are the new and developing 'you' anyway, and will counteract her old impressions of you without trying.
 
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Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Actually, DJ her without expectation of a payoff. She provides a unique challenge: you became an AFC before her very eyes, and now you have to work against that and reverse it.

Very good practice.
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Very incisive.I think of myself as a DJ in training I always DJ as well as I can cos my intention is to get better at DJing. Getting mad clam is a bonus :D
 
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