From fingering her on the 2nd meet to her not answering my calls

[almostaristotle]

here's my recent story with a chick. i'm from mumbai, india.

She works at one of my clients and I had her number from past few months, i had tried setting up dates then but she always ****ing had excuses and she does stay far so maybe that was it. So i stopped and went full no contact.

But 2-3 days back i re-initiated and asked her to meet me, she agreed immediately but still gave me a time for 12 dec and all but the next day i asked her to just come to the railway station closest to me, she did i took her to a secluded place near a temple and horsed around, kissing her on the cheek, holding her waist and hand and all, all very smooth.

Next day i got out early from work and called her down to the parking lot(best place ever) of her office building which is really close to my office, she comes and we make out there for 20mins and i even ****ing get to fingering her,boobs etc etc.

Then i just asked her if her boss got angry as she was out during her working hours, she just said he "shouted" to which i just to horse around with her put the blame back on her by telling her "see i had told you to go back fast" while it was obviously me who wasn't letting her go. She sent me those mock anger texts that she hates and i should not talk to her and all. ..but now its been 2 ****ing days and the she's actually not answering my ****ing calls.

And i'm afraid i have ended up calling a little too many times. My one simple theory is she already has a guy and maybe they had a lil fight or something and that's why she agreed to the date and all and now they're back together or something.

And thank ****ing god i have game concepts, the pre-game me would have been so ****ing devastated by something like this. .it's still sad i really wanted to fclose this one but it's k. There's another chick in line who is currently LOTs of games on text.. let's see.

tell me what y'all think

 

[Alpheta]

Stop chasing man. It's her job. There is no other game other than NOT CHASING. She WILL come to you. You dated her then just wait for her. Have a good time then jus wait for her to make ANY type of move. If she calls, just arrange a date. End of. No chasing. It just kills any type of attraction.

 

[almostaristotle]

Stop chasing man. It's her job. There is no other game other than NOT CHASING. She WILL come to you. You dated her then just wait for her. Have a good time then jus wait for her to make ANY type of move. If she calls, just arrange a date. End of. No chasing. It just kills any type of attraction.

I was thinking more about the what the whole deal is about.

Is this a test?
is she scared that things moved too fast with me fingering her just on the second date
did she just get back with her bf after the minor tussle they had and i was just some small rebound thing

its not driving me crazy with love or something but just thinking about it. The not knowing part is really annoying me though.

So no more contact right, i think i have made more reaching out then her. I should really stop.

thanks for the reply.

 

[marmel75]

Too many days in a row...makes you look desperate and optionless. Major turn off.

 

[sunnykhatri736]

Bro im also from india. But im from delhi.. same case happened with me as well but the difference was that she blocked me ... i will suggest u to go no contact.. you madeout with her and u called her 2 times. So she just wants that u should call and text her again n again so that u put her on pedastral but u are a don juan so u cant do that. U did ur part . U called her so if she wants to see u again then she should call.or text u back... im happy to see that u fingered her on second date. Maybe u should have asked her to see u after her office so that u can have sex in hotel room. The mistake u did was that u asked her to meet u in her working hours. Instead of that u should have met her when she was free so that instead of just fingering u should have slept with her.

 

[almostaristotle]

Too many days in a row...makes you look desperate and optionless. Major turn off.

you mean i met her too many days in a row? So i should stop that . .cool. It was just that she works right close to me so i thought why the **** not go and make out.

Bro im also from india. But im from delhi.. same case happened with me as well but the difference was that she blocked me ... i will suggest u to go no contact.. you madeout with her and u called her 2 times. So she just wants that u should call and text her again n again so that u put her on pedastral but u are a don juan so u cant do that. U did ur part . U called her so if she wants to see u again then she should call.or text u back... im happy to see that u fingered her on second date. Maybe u should have asked her to see u after her office so that u can have sex in hotel room. The mistake u did was that u asked her to meet u in her working hours. Instead of that u should have met her when she was free so that instead of just fingering u should have slept with her.

great man, send me a pm lets get in touch on whatsapp. About ****ing her, she has those restrictions and stuff, she has to get back home and all that. Don't know how true that is. And hotel rooms are damn expensive in the first place. Logistics is a real ***** man.

And i see that most advice here is to go no contact for some days. i really did go overboard with calling her, gave her 4 calls and she didnt return one. That's ****ing bad i should have stopped after 2. Damn.

 

[sunnykhatri736]

After dates u should wait for 2 days n.let her call.or text u
If she doesnt then u call.her