Zwitterion
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
From AFC to PUA (video)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Zwitterion
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bump, i still think this is worth seeing
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
yes, that Chinaman did good bro
Nexus Polaris
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Where can I find some definitions for all these sosuave type terms? I've got a basic idea from context clues as to the meanings of stuff like AFC and PUA, but I'm still pretty lost as to their actual meanings.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
I just watched that video now, I enjoyed the second part of it when he became a "player" .
I have a problem though with this video and with "Loverboy."
1. At the end he again mentions his EX in CAPITAL letters, throughout this video there is refrence to his Ex. Why?
2. How did he get these pictures taken? I smell a set up.
3. I feel and I feel really sad because of this , I feel and think and maybe I even KNOW that he isnt over his EX. I think it will catch up with him later in life UNLESS he manages to go from "the game" he is in to finding another "gem" girl that he can love again.
To conclude: This is a dangerous situation.
I have a problem though with this video and with "Loverboy."
1. At the end he again mentions his EX in CAPITAL letters, throughout this video there is refrence to his Ex. Why?
2. How did he get these pictures taken? I smell a set up.
3. I feel and I feel really sad because of this , I feel and think and maybe I even KNOW that he isnt over his EX. I think it will catch up with him later in life UNLESS he manages to go from "the game" he is in to finding another "gem" girl that he can love again.
To conclude: This is a dangerous situation.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Yep I remember seeing this video.
That's loverboy from RSD, this video is pretty old, but the last few minutes were a update this year.
The whole video is to show how he first was and how his life changed when he got into the community. Last part (update) was just a trick to make it seem like he got back with his ex.
He got those pics by "camera".
An yea he has a gf right now so i'm pretty sure he is over his ex.
Overall the video is cool and their are other similar videos that I've seen.
That's loverboy from RSD, this video is pretty old, but the last few minutes were a update this year.
The whole video is to show how he first was and how his life changed when he got into the community. Last part (update) was just a trick to make it seem like he got back with his ex.
He got those pics by "camera".
An yea he has a gf right now so i'm pretty sure he is over his ex.
Overall the video is cool and their are other similar videos that I've seen.
amoka
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http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtmlNexus Polaris said:
thickandcreamy
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I believe he was sued as a result of distributing this video on the internet.
TheHumanist
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I'm so gonna be flamed for this statement, but I feel more alarmed than anything else. A girl he been with for years, but in the end shows no attachment or loyalty. Then he becomes a pua and live a very active sex life. While having legions of girls sounds nice, life sounds so hollow to me at the thought. I rather have a good girl by my side to go through life thick and thin, that just make me wonder if that even possible.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.