Zwitterion
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
From AFC to PUA (video)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Zwitterion
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bump, i still think this is worth seeing
LA_Chico
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yes, that Chinaman did good bro
Nexus Polaris
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Where can I find some definitions for all these sosuave type terms? I've got a basic idea from context clues as to the meanings of stuff like AFC and PUA, but I'm still pretty lost as to their actual meanings.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
I just watched that video now, I enjoyed the second part of it when he became a "player" .
I have a problem though with this video and with "Loverboy."
1. At the end he again mentions his EX in CAPITAL letters, throughout this video there is refrence to his Ex. Why?
2. How did he get these pictures taken? I smell a set up.
3. I feel and I feel really sad because of this , I feel and think and maybe I even KNOW that he isnt over his EX. I think it will catch up with him later in life UNLESS he manages to go from "the game" he is in to finding another "gem" girl that he can love again.
To conclude: This is a dangerous situation.
I have a problem though with this video and with "Loverboy."
1. At the end he again mentions his EX in CAPITAL letters, throughout this video there is refrence to his Ex. Why?
2. How did he get these pictures taken? I smell a set up.
3. I feel and I feel really sad because of this , I feel and think and maybe I even KNOW that he isnt over his EX. I think it will catch up with him later in life UNLESS he manages to go from "the game" he is in to finding another "gem" girl that he can love again.
To conclude: This is a dangerous situation.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Yep I remember seeing this video.
That's loverboy from RSD, this video is pretty old, but the last few minutes were a update this year.
The whole video is to show how he first was and how his life changed when he got into the community. Last part (update) was just a trick to make it seem like he got back with his ex.
He got those pics by "camera".
An yea he has a gf right now so i'm pretty sure he is over his ex.
Overall the video is cool and their are other similar videos that I've seen.
That's loverboy from RSD, this video is pretty old, but the last few minutes were a update this year.
The whole video is to show how he first was and how his life changed when he got into the community. Last part (update) was just a trick to make it seem like he got back with his ex.
He got those pics by "camera".
An yea he has a gf right now so i'm pretty sure he is over his ex.
Overall the video is cool and their are other similar videos that I've seen.
amoka
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http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtmlNexus Polaris said:
thickandcreamy
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I believe he was sued as a result of distributing this video on the internet.
TheHumanist
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I'm so gonna be flamed for this statement, but I feel more alarmed than anything else. A girl he been with for years, but in the end shows no attachment or loyalty. Then he becomes a pua and live a very active sex life. While having legions of girls sounds nice, life sounds so hollow to me at the thought. I rather have a good girl by my side to go through life thick and thin, that just make me wonder if that even possible.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.