"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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From AFC to PUA (video)

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zwitterion

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bump, i still think this is worth seeing
 

LA_Chico

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yes, that Chinaman did good bro
 

Nexus Polaris

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Where can I find some definitions for all these sosuave type terms? I've got a basic idea from context clues as to the meanings of stuff like AFC and PUA, but I'm still pretty lost as to their actual meanings.
 

Ll Principe

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I just watched that video now, I enjoyed the second part of it when he became a "player" .

I have a problem though with this video and with "Loverboy."

1. At the end he again mentions his EX in CAPITAL letters, throughout this video there is refrence to his Ex. Why?

2. How did he get these pictures taken? I smell a set up.

3. I feel and I feel really sad because of this , I feel and think and maybe I even KNOW that he isnt over his EX. I think it will catch up with him later in life UNLESS he manages to go from "the game" he is in to finding another "gem" girl that he can love again.

To conclude: This is a dangerous situation.:down:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Snow Plowman

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Yep I remember seeing this video.

That's loverboy from RSD, this video is pretty old, but the last few minutes were a update this year.

The whole video is to show how he first was and how his life changed when he got into the community. Last part (update) was just a trick to make it seem like he got back with his ex.

He got those pics by "camera".

An yea he has a gf right now so i'm pretty sure he is over his ex.

Overall the video is cool and their are other similar videos that I've seen.
 

amoka

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amoka

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This video circulated on the forum several times already.
 

TheHumanist

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I'm so gonna be flamed for this statement, but I feel more alarmed than anything else. A girl he been with for years, but in the end shows no attachment or loyalty. Then he becomes a pua and live a very active sex life. While having legions of girls sounds nice, life sounds so hollow to me at the thought. I rather have a good girl by my side to go through life thick and thin, that just make me wonder if that even possible.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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