"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Friendzoned or trying to make me jealous?

smtimex

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I try not to over analyze things but earlier today I was having lunch with this girl (wasn't the first time we've hung out) and while we were talking, she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there.

i know its kind of hard to tell from that short little paragraph... i always hear if girls talk about that kind of stuff with you, youve been friendzoned but im not sure. what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonJuan11

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smtimex said:
she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there. what do you guys think?
BEAUTIFUL
 

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SharinganUser said:
I think you should've made yoshi noises.
^loser.:kick:

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Your answer was perfect. Also hard to tell with that little information. I'd keep this one on the backburner while you find other girls to game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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