"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Friendzoned or trying to make me jealous?

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smtimex

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I try not to over analyze things but earlier today I was having lunch with this girl (wasn't the first time we've hung out) and while we were talking, she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there.

i know its kind of hard to tell from that short little paragraph... i always hear if girls talk about that kind of stuff with you, youve been friendzoned but im not sure. what do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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smtimex said:
she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there. what do you guys think?
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BEAUTIFUL
 
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SharinganUser said:
I think you should've made yoshi noises.
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^loser.:kick:

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Your answer was perfect. Also hard to tell with that little information. I'd keep this one on the backburner while you find other girls to game.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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