"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friendzoned or trying to make me jealous?

smtimex

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I try not to over analyze things but earlier today I was having lunch with this girl (wasn't the first time we've hung out) and while we were talking, she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there.

i know its kind of hard to tell from that short little paragraph... i always hear if girls talk about that kind of stuff with you, youve been friendzoned but im not sure. what do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuan11

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smtimex said:
she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there. what do you guys think?
BEAUTIFUL
 

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SharinganUser said:
I think you should've made yoshi noises.
^loser.:kick:

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Your answer was perfect. Also hard to tell with that little information. I'd keep this one on the backburner while you find other girls to game.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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