"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Friendzoned or trying to make me jealous?

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I try not to over analyze things but earlier today I was having lunch with this girl (wasn't the first time we've hung out) and while we were talking, she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there.

i know its kind of hard to tell from that short little paragraph... i always hear if girls talk about that kind of stuff with you, youve been friendzoned but im not sure. what do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJuan11

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smtimex said:
she asked what I was doing later today. I told her some bs and she said I should come visit her at work...she followed by saying "yeah, i can even show you my cutest co worker if he is working"

I responded by saying im not into guys and the subject changed from there. what do you guys think?
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BEAUTIFUL
 
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Desert Fox

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SharinganUser said:
I think you should've made yoshi noises.
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^loser.:kick:

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Your answer was perfect. Also hard to tell with that little information. I'd keep this one on the backburner while you find other girls to game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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