Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Friends-zoning Women

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Friend-zoning women* SS won't let me correct the typo in the title.


I'm wondering how the dynamic would change if you friend-zone a girl who's a potential plate (but isn't yet one).

I'm thinking either her hamster would spin (if she's somewhat into you) or she'd be unfazed (if she wasn't that into you). Or something in between...

Has anyone tried this before?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Friend-zoning women* SS won't let me correct the typo in the title.


I'm wondering how the dynamic would change if you friend-zone a girl who's a potential plate (but isn't yet one).

I'm thinking either her hamster would spin (if she's somewhat into you) or she'd be unfazed (if she wasn't that into you). Or something in between...

Has anyone tried this before?
It's interesting you mention this. With a certain kind of woman, you are probably better off with 'friend-zoning' her.... because you just know she is not the kind to respond positively to pick up tactics and she will run a mile anyway.
 

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You can do it but it’s a waste of time.
I don't know... we could all do with more friends right?

But yes, probably a waste of time if all you are looking for is a romantic physical connection.... you have to keep that cheeky erotic edge alive if you want to move things along. I think though that edge has to be finely tuned to the particular woman... if you don't want to be written off too quickly as a player.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you meet many women , some of them will have to become friendzoned.

It will drive them crazy if you have many other women to play with and they are much easier to fck . Why? Because women want to compete with each other , she's gonna see it as promotion because she will think you have recognised her worth , and because when you want something but can't have it yet , it's worth is increased.

Plus you will get to meet her propably more attractive female friends .

Also if you don't want to do something with her , hanging around together in a friendly manner it's gonna sky rocket your smv . So more puss for you .

I don't understand how is this waste of time ?
 

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I friend zoned a girl after a couple of dates because I thought that there wasn't much sexual chemistry. She was PISSED so I ignored her and the next day she offered to be FWBs. I blocked her anyway because the outburst from getting friend zoned was too much.

We are also all aware of how many female friends are down for sex after we become single.

I think this is tough to game. If she reacts like the first girl did she was probably easy enough to make into a plate through regular means. I would only do this to girls I wasn't that interested in.
 

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All that will happen is she'll be initially disappointed and then see you as her gay best friend orbiter.
 
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