"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friends-zoning Women

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Friend-zoning women* SS won't let me correct the typo in the title.


I'm wondering how the dynamic would change if you friend-zone a girl who's a potential plate (but isn't yet one).

I'm thinking either her hamster would spin (if she's somewhat into you) or she'd be unfazed (if she wasn't that into you). Or something in between...

Has anyone tried this before?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Friend-zoning women* SS won't let me correct the typo in the title.


I'm wondering how the dynamic would change if you friend-zone a girl who's a potential plate (but isn't yet one).

I'm thinking either her hamster would spin (if she's somewhat into you) or she'd be unfazed (if she wasn't that into you). Or something in between...

Has anyone tried this before?
It's interesting you mention this. With a certain kind of woman, you are probably better off with 'friend-zoning' her.... because you just know she is not the kind to respond positively to pick up tactics and she will run a mile anyway.
 

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You can do it but it’s a waste of time.
I don't know... we could all do with more friends right?

But yes, probably a waste of time if all you are looking for is a romantic physical connection.... you have to keep that cheeky erotic edge alive if you want to move things along. I think though that edge has to be finely tuned to the particular woman... if you don't want to be written off too quickly as a player.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you meet many women , some of them will have to become friendzoned.

It will drive them crazy if you have many other women to play with and they are much easier to fck . Why? Because women want to compete with each other , she's gonna see it as promotion because she will think you have recognised her worth , and because when you want something but can't have it yet , it's worth is increased.

Plus you will get to meet her propably more attractive female friends .

Also if you don't want to do something with her , hanging around together in a friendly manner it's gonna sky rocket your smv . So more puss for you .

I don't understand how is this waste of time ?
 

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I friend zoned a girl after a couple of dates because I thought that there wasn't much sexual chemistry. She was PISSED so I ignored her and the next day she offered to be FWBs. I blocked her anyway because the outburst from getting friend zoned was too much.

We are also all aware of how many female friends are down for sex after we become single.

I think this is tough to game. If she reacts like the first girl did she was probably easy enough to make into a plate through regular means. I would only do this to girls I wasn't that interested in.
 

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All that will happen is she'll be initially disappointed and then see you as her gay best friend orbiter.
 
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