"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friends-zoning Women

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Friend-zoning women* SS won't let me correct the typo in the title.


I'm wondering how the dynamic would change if you friend-zone a girl who's a potential plate (but isn't yet one).

I'm thinking either her hamster would spin (if she's somewhat into you) or she'd be unfazed (if she wasn't that into you). Or something in between...

Has anyone tried this before?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friend-zoning women* SS won't let me correct the typo in the title.


I'm wondering how the dynamic would change if you friend-zone a girl who's a potential plate (but isn't yet one).

I'm thinking either her hamster would spin (if she's somewhat into you) or she'd be unfazed (if she wasn't that into you). Or something in between...

Has anyone tried this before?
It's interesting you mention this. With a certain kind of woman, you are probably better off with 'friend-zoning' her.... because you just know she is not the kind to respond positively to pick up tactics and she will run a mile anyway.
 

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You can do it but it’s a waste of time.
I don't know... we could all do with more friends right?

But yes, probably a waste of time if all you are looking for is a romantic physical connection.... you have to keep that cheeky erotic edge alive if you want to move things along. I think though that edge has to be finely tuned to the particular woman... if you don't want to be written off too quickly as a player.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you meet many women , some of them will have to become friendzoned.

It will drive them crazy if you have many other women to play with and they are much easier to fck . Why? Because women want to compete with each other , she's gonna see it as promotion because she will think you have recognised her worth , and because when you want something but can't have it yet , it's worth is increased.

Plus you will get to meet her propably more attractive female friends .

Also if you don't want to do something with her , hanging around together in a friendly manner it's gonna sky rocket your smv . So more puss for you .

I don't understand how is this waste of time ?
 

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I friend zoned a girl after a couple of dates because I thought that there wasn't much sexual chemistry. She was PISSED so I ignored her and the next day she offered to be FWBs. I blocked her anyway because the outburst from getting friend zoned was too much.

We are also all aware of how many female friends are down for sex after we become single.

I think this is tough to game. If she reacts like the first girl did she was probably easy enough to make into a plate through regular means. I would only do this to girls I wasn't that interested in.
 

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All that will happen is she'll be initially disappointed and then see you as her gay best friend orbiter.
 
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