"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Friend's younger sister's friend.

Eiljwa

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I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gustav Yavo

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Umm, well im now dating my best friends sister. Just approach her like any other girl. Ask her for her number, and go out on some dates.
 

DonJuan11

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Eiljwa said:
I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
Um...how about talking to her and showing real interest in her next time you see her?
 

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This is what worked for me. My method for this would be, treat her like crap, be extremely ****y to her, this way u get her in a state where u won't be using any words, you'll be fighting with her like play fighting (pillow fighting, stuff like that), this is where u get ur kino in a kind of different way, but she will get comfortable to you quickly this way, then you propose a truce to the fighting and a girl's defenses will crumble, if u did enough kino and built enough interest i had a girl pulling me in to kiss her after i told her i wanted a truce with her. This was on a girl i never even knew before, 1st day me hanging out with my buddy's younger sister and her friend. Not sure what age groups this would work on but she was under 20. that was a fun night =)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First, make sure she is not jail bait. Then, spend more time interacting with her the next time you two meet. Proceed from there.
 
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